Lauren LaRusso, LPC, LMHC on Instagram: "GRIEF after affair discovery is enough to give you whiplash. One minute you’re raging (anger), the next you’re sobbing (sadness), the next you’re planning a family vacation (bargaining). The feelings and behaviors of a betrayed spouse can be so confusing to the betrayed AND to the unfaithful. We understand that grief and trauma can have our emotions and reactions changing from one moment to the next, one day to the next. For me, this was absolutely true.