To the spouse whose partner has depression: 1. They love you dearly, more than anything; they are just clouded in their depression. Despite the darkness they face, their love for you remains strong. 2. Their depression overwhelms their minds with thoughts of being unlovable and worthless. These are powerful, consuming lies that distort their self-perception. 3. They want to believe you, to trust in your love and support, but often they feel the weight of their depression more intensely. It's not